Forget the adage Win/Win and make a commitment to Learn/Learn. Win/Win is good, but implies an end. Once you win, then what? Learn/Learn creates a paradigm of ongoing value. This creates a Learn/Learn situation. I...

Don’t let a thief into your house three times. The first time was enough. The second time was a chance. The third time means you’re stupid.

Miss Austen’s novels … seem to me vulgar in tone, sterile in artistic invention, imprisoned in the wretched conventions of English society, without genius, wit, or knowledge of the world. Never was life so pinched...

I’ve always had a thing for Carmyn Rafferty. She carries herself as a reserved and proper woman, but I see a tension in her. A slight glitch in some of her movements lets me know...

…it’s been amazing- not perfect, but amazing. I’m actually glad of the nonperfection because that has made our relationship feel more grounded, solid, and real than what I had (…), which just cruised blithely along,...

… relationships required such vigilance, such attention. You had to hold them together by force of will, and other people took up so much space, demanded so much time. It was exhausting.

Become faithful to yourself, if you do, it will come natural towards everyone else.

The seeking of a mate shall be undertaken with due preparation and care. A life-bond should never be contemplated as a light thing–unlike a legal union or sanctified joining, the sealing of souls CANNOT be...

Even though she would dream of love, respect, and unfettered romance… it was a cyclical dilemma in her life that she seemed to be most attracted to poisonous men.

All the black leathershe needsis the E-Z boy reclinerwhere her love is parkedwith one of his hands wrapped around a remote,the other, a bottle of beer.She’s right. It’s kinky.The way he doesn’t look awayfrom the...

Sometimes love can be both the punishment and the crime.

AttractionThe whites of his eyespull me like moons.He smiles. I believehis face. Alreadymy body slips down in the chair:I recline on my side,offering peeled grapes.I can taste his tonguein my mouthwhenever he speaks.I suspect he...

You are my home; it is in your loving gaze that I find the comfort, acceptance, and the sense of belonging.

But it is impossible to go through life without trust; that is to be imprisoned in the worst cell of all, oneself.

For all his secrecy and fear of being seen, he was touched that we had observed him so closely, and with such love. He loved that we knew him. This is one reason people need...

I love being aroused. I love how that feeling overcomes me, as I look at a man’s erect cock, as I feel his hands ripping my clothes from my body, as the air caresses my...

Real Men can commit to 1 person. Only boys are “Players”, pimps usually get lock up or die at the end of movies, & dogs catch fleas!

Life will never be the same again. Life will be better.

The strongest love is that which flows out of fear.

To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates,...

The person following is never in control, which she knows full well and which is exactly why she does it.

It is easier to lie to yourself than hear others tell you that tell you that you are a fool.

Love is about filling up the space, not making more holes.

She had eyes like sunsets, and every time she blinked it felt like the end of the world, otherwise known as night.

The bottom line was that I was in an abusive relationship.

He doesn’t need to be reminded you’re great.

In general, people are not drawn to perfection in others. People are drawn to shared interests, shared problems, and an individual’s life energy.Humans connect with humans. Hiding one’s humanity and trying to project an image...

He was one of those men, and they are not the commonest, of whom we can know the best only by following them away from the marketplace, the platform, and the pulpit, entering with them...

He wasn’t the type for displays of affection, either verbal or not. He was disgusted by couples that made out in the hallways between classes, and got annoyed at even the slightest sappy moments in...

The more invested I am in my own ideas about reality, the more those experiences will feel like victimizations rather than the ups and downs of relating. Actually, I believe that the less I conceptualize...

When you invite people to share in your miracle, you create future allies during rough weather.

I can tell if two people are in love by how they hold each other’s hands, and how thick their sanitation gloves are.

Honesty is a heart that betrays itself for a dream, a moment, a kiss.

In choosing a mate, don’t pick the tallest and most handsome or the most beautiful. Don’t choose one just because that person raises your physical passions. Look for the person who is good from within,...

But I wasn’t creeping.

I had a second friend come over to my house, and do you know what I called her? A refill. If relationships aren’t drinkable, why do we thirst for them so much?

There’s no savior here. Especially not at 1:15 a.m.

To become one who believes two become one, you need love in your life.

You make me so happy I could frown. Let us dance like two rocking chairs at a KISS concert, and let us kiss like two people named Sam Asmas who’ve just discovered the meaning of...

I was crying on the inside, but on the outside, to the casual observer, and to the man who was dying, I was laughing. That man was my father, and I haven’t laughed that hard...

Sorry! But I’m not a game played when ever you want to play it!

But this can’t be true! I can understand, of course, their obedience to women of charm—but to fat women? To bony women? To women with scrawny cheeks?

Yet how bored they both looked, and how wearily Ethel regarded Jim sometimes, as if she wondered why she had trained the vines of her affection on such a wind-shaken poplar.

If one wants to be loved and return it full score dagger of silence closes the door.

I call him by his first name only. We’re that friendly. Plus, with a last name of McGee, why would I ever bother calling him by his full name of Dicksmear McGee?

I’m always 15 minutes early for everything. In fact, I was born 15 minutes early. That’s why my love is always a bit premature. But don’t worry; just give our relationship a minute—plus fourteen more.

I had a dream about you. Dinner for two turned into dinner for three when you told me you were pregnant. I was excited, but a little nervous, because we were at a fancy restaurant...

My I love you was a measured response, like one gallon of coffee in one cup of sugar. It was just overflowing with an awakening of my soul.

No man would ever want a girl who roams nude in a bar and drenches herself in bear on a slumber party.

Her vagina feels like home, while her sister’s vagina feels like a hotel room. I should ask for a late checkout.