What we want to do in this moment is rarely what’s best for us. We need to take a longer view of life and to realize that to become someone worth becoming, I probably need...

Children have imagination enough to grasp any idea which you present to them with honesty and without patronage.

When I Was One-And-TwentyWhen I was one-and-twenty I heard a wise man say,`Give crowns and pounds and guineas But not your heart away;Give pearls away and rubies But keep your fancy free.’But I was one-and-twenty...

We are never more fully alive, more completely ourselves, or more deeply engrossed in anything, than when we are at play.

People give you a hard time about being a kid at twelve. They didn’t want to give you Halloween candy anymore. They said things like, “If this were the Middle Ages, you’d be married and...

There’s enough maturity in the offerings from Salesforce.com now that it will open up a market opportunity beyond the early adopters.

When one is young, one venerates and despises without that art of nuances which constitutes the best gain of life, and it is only fair that one has to pay dearly for having assaulted men...

Being popular or not, having company or being alone, are not issues of concern for the developed soul.

Stop thinking like Alice in Wonderland, Celia told herself sternly. You’re a grown-up, it’s no use shutting your eyes, wishing things would happen

Conversions were easy, but making full-time disciples was hard.

As his children, we were treated as some species of migrant workers who happened to be passing through. My father was the only person I ever knew who looked upon childhood as a dishonorable vocation...

When I was 25, I believed I could change the world. At 41, I have come to the realization that I cannot change my wife, my church, or my kids, to say nothing of the...

I can teach you how to respect but self-respect is self taught.

Being a child sucked. Being a teenager was worse. And being an adult seemed so far away that I had a better chance at swimming the length of the ocean than growing up.

The process of living seems to consist in coming to realize truths so ancient and simple that, if stated, they sound like barren platitudes. They cannot sound otherwise to those who have not had the...

The older I get, the more I realize that I am not just the student, but I am my own teacher as well.

At last I understood that the way over, or through this dilemma, the unease at writing about ‘petty personal problems’ was to recognize that nothing is personal, in the sense that it is uniquely one’s...

There is a greater Christian faith than one which settles for the temporal happiness, and that is the augmentation of faith. The more faithful you become, the harder the obstacles get; but the harder the...

I called his broken promise heartbreaking, and he called it growing up. Oh, that’s mature—blame it on maturity.

I’m not the same person I was when I wasn’t. I’m different now, in that now I’m drinking coffee.

Maturity dare to be the first to shine as a light in the dark.

Young girls are like helpless children in the hands of amorous men, whatever is said to them is true and whatever manipulation on their bodies seems like love to them, sooner or later, they come...

Childhood isn’t just those years. It’s also the opinions you form about them afterward. That’s why our childhoods are so long.

The only relationships that exist are based on truth. Everything else is just a mutual and isolating delusion.

It’s really nice to see him mature and handle pressure and try to be a positive influence to everyone who is around him. I think he is getting there. That’s the joy of teaching high...

Do any men grow up or do they only come of age?

There is no night porter wandering about in King’s. The authorities pay you the compliment, ugly gate-crasher, of treating you as a grown-up. And since we are not grown-up you and I, we will perform...

Change takes time. It takes time for the seeds to begin growing within, time to understand and process, time for the growth to mature, and time for the old self to die and fall away.

Fitting in is about assessing a situation and becoming who you need to be to be accepted. Belonging, on the other hand, doesn’t require us to change who we are; it requires us to be...

When a tree is polled, it will sprout new shoots nearer its roots. A soul that is ruined in the bud will frequently return to the springtime of its beginnings and its promise-filled childhood, as...

You may be temporarily young, but you’ll forever be childish.” Then I put gum in her hair.

There’s no incentive to go into that longer maturity now.

Just out of high school, you didn’t realize you were creating drama for the sake of drama.

Maturity is when your world opens up and you realize that you are not the center of it.

Maturity is achieved when a person accepts life as full of tension.

is a bitter disappointment for which no remedy exists, unlesslaughter can be said to remedy anything.

I’m not ready to let the youthful part of myself go yet. If maturity means becoming a cynic, if you have to kill the part of yourself that is naive and romantic and idealistic –...

There’s a difference, you know, between faith and playing make-believe. One will make you grow. The other one will make you sleep.

maturity”, animated lives around him, it might be said that Reverend Gwyon had reached maturity.

One day I finally decided, that there is no point sharing my feelings, You don’t enjoy…

Children’s and YA books are about being brave and kind, about learning wisdom and love, about that journey into and through maturity that we all keep starting, and starting again, no matter how old we...

Maturity is when we can differentiate between our wants and needs and treat them as such.

But no matter how much parents and grandparents may have sinned against the child, the man who is really adult will accept these sins as his own condition which has to be reckoned with. Only...

As a writer of philosophy, it’s good to ask oneself, ‘Will I still believe this a week from now, or months, or even years?

Being nice to someone who did you foul in the past is kinda like a mature way of getting revenge because it sometimes confuses the hell out of them & brings them to the realization...

There was that word again.Mature. Was this what maturity was? Giving up on the things we wanted because we knew we’d never get them?

To leave the comforts of home, the mother world, one must have some place to go. Admittedly, the rites of passage of traditional cultures were to initiate the youth into a simpler society, a more...

Wine is the refined jewel that only a grown woman will prefer to the sparkling trinkets adored by little girls.

Maturity, one discovers, has everything to do with the acceptance of ‘not knowing.

College was to teach me that I was one of life’s journeymen, eager to excel but lacking the requisite gifts.