When you’re in love with two people, always choose the second. The fact that you are constantly thinking of the second person makes it obvious that the first will never fulfill you, unless the second...

I’ll wear a maze on a necklace, dangling over my chest, because if you want to get at my heart, you have to be ready to lose yourself.

Sometimes I feel like we are the same, but sometimes, like right now, I feel the separation between our personalities like I’ve just run into a wall.

I’m twice as old as she is tall. She’s half my age in height. We have a David and Goliath kind of love.

Men, being accustomed to act on reflection themselves, are a great deal too apt to believe that women act on reflection, too. Women do nothing of the sort. They act on impulse; and, in nine...

If you spend enough time with someone who doubts you, you can’t help but believe them.

Soul mates. They really call themselves that, which makes sense, because I guess they are … They have no harsh edges with each other, no spiny conflicts, they ride though life like conjoined jellyfish –...

I went to visit my dad. He didn’t say a word to me. Or if he did, I couldn’t hear it through the grass, the dirt, and his coffin lid.

An arguing couple spiraling into negativity and teetering on the brink of divorce is actually mathematically equivalent to the beginning of a nuclear war.

My I love yous were watered down, which was how I was able to grow such a beautiful garden. I’m a relationship farmer, and I’m growing as a person.

There is no such thing as the perfect relationship. You can however, create a relationship which is perfect. Perfection comes from your commitment to being a teacher and a student. Being as curious and playful...

Love is me plus you. But what’s with the midget in the corner recording all of our interactions? I thought I fired him yesterday.

I was living and dying in all the fibers of what is chewed and digested and in all the fibers that absorb the sun, consuming and digesting. Under the thatched arbor of a restaurant on...

There are so many movies like this, where you thought you were smarter than the screen but the director was smarter than you, of course he’s the one, of course it was a dream, of...

I had a dream about you. You were saving your love for another man, so I gave you a bigger Ziploc bag to save it in, because if you’re going to make that relationship work,...

I recently heard a talk about identity in which the speaker said it’s almost as though we are born into a world in which we are constantly being labeled by others — our parents, our...

When it’s about your life, it’s time to be selfish.

Men lie to get laid, women lie about orgasms, and hermaphrodites lie to themselves.

If your blade were as sharp as your tongue, you’d have sliced my through years ago.

I think I just inhaled a cloud shaped like the ghost of my grandpa, and all I have to say is grandma smelled better.

I had to kill and eat my pet chicken. It was dinner for one, because the night before I killed and ate my grandpa.

People don’t know. We don’t know ourselves so we tell ourselves what we really know is other people. We could say the depth of pain we feel for the lovers who’ve left us is because...

Can trust be trusted?

Her and I, we passed each other, and now she’s in my past. That’s one present I’d like to unwrap in the future.

For there is nothing like travel to heal a broken heart.

Maybe this is a second doctoral program: advanced learning about life, death, marriage, mothering, family, faith, patience, prayer. My degree will be ‘Doctor of Life,’ and I will be in good company. So many of...

Find a woman who makes you feel more alive. She won’t make life perfect but she’ll make it infinitely more interesting. And then love her with all that’s in you.

I have to figure out why I worked at a job I hated for years. I have to find out why I can’t see what everyone else sees in me. I don’t feel beautiful. When...

I wrote: ‘Do you really not believe in love?’I really wished I never would have asked.’No’, she had written back. ‘I believe people become infatuated; maybe they even really like each other. But I don’t...

I don’t throttle and smother people in my life.. Not because I don’t have my own fair share of doubts and sometimes, yes, insecurities.. But I have a great deal of confidence in my instincts...

We fall in love and let our minds fall apart..We let ourselves fall, and keep falling..Our minds are caught by one another, mixed up in a random puzzle, piece by piece put together into a...

I think men can really get in the way when you are trying to sort your life out and get on with it. Because they just take up so much space. I’m not under any...

Not everyone has to ride off into the sunset with a man. Some of us just want a tan.

The more things we accumulate, the more cluttered our lives become, and the more stressed we feel as we are compelled to think about them. Life is about people not about things.

Nothing could replace the feeling of total devotion from another person.

Great men have always preferred women of the prostitute type.

Girls spilled drinks down their dresses and flicked their hair. Wishing anyone, maybe even you, would notice them… You were someone to me.

It’s the only part of a person I really want to capture. Everything else seems to get lost in layers of deception or defensiveness. But not kindness. You can’t hide it. And people either are...

Sometimes I feel like relationships consist of telling your same life stories to different people until someone finally appreciates them.

Accept that what you see is what you’ll get. Once your relationship becomes firmly established, your partner’s personality and the way in which [he or] she treats you will most likely be what your future...

Maybe you could be mine / or maybe we’ll be entwined / aimless in this sexless foreplay.

Having a sister or a friend is like sitting at night in a lighted house. Those outside can watch you if they want, but you need not see them. You simply say, “Here are the...

I will love you always. When this red hair is white, I will still love you. When the smooth softness of youth is replaced by the delicate softness of age, I will still want to...

Im gonna be a pretender the rest of my life. Pretending i dont wish every girl i kiss isnt you. Pretending i dont wish every girl i sleep with isnt you. Im gonna have to...

That’s all women need men for? Sperm, a paycheck, and free flights?

A man is not for you when all he knows is to slam your back on the bed and ram into you like a wild fool. The interested ones are the ones so interested that...

There’s a story here.A catastrophic silence where our thoughts and feelings collide …Where your sweetness overrides my senses and our bodies move to the same tune.The same song.The same melody.The same stroke.The same rhythm.It’s our...

We must admit that simply knowing the contents of the Bible is not a sure route to spiritual growth. There is an aweful assumption in evangelical churches that if we can just get the Word...

Birisi üzerinize, sahibi olduğunuzu düşündüğünüz şeyin sizden önceki sahipliğini serpiştirdiği anda, belki de o şey sizin olmaktan çıkıyordu. Sevgilinin eskisiyle karşılaşmak bu yüzden kötüydü.

The reason gold-diggers trivializerelationships is because they do not know love,they only know money.