Such a woman is called “Mother’s FRIEND” always ready to give judicious Parental advice and living vicariously on the experience of others

Rather than arriving five hours late and flustered, it would be better all around if he were to arrive five hours and a few extra minutes late, but triumphantly in command.

Definitions from Mulla Do-PiazaCommunity: Irrationals unified by hope of the impossible.

Show a man too many camels’ bones,or show them to him too often,and he will not be able to recognize a camel when he comes across a live one.

To bind one free man with love is better than to release a thousand slaves.

Your life is a movie. You are the main character. You say your scripts and act to your lines. Of course you do your lines in each scene. There is a hidden camera and a...

The guilty are uncomfortable with silence.

Love, experienced thus, is a constant challenge; it is not a resting place, but moving, growing, working together; even when there is harmony or conflict, joy or sadness, is secondary to the fundamental fact that...

Woman’s fear of the female Self, of the experience of the numinous archetypal Feminine, becomes comprehensible when we get a glimpse – or even only a hint – of the profound otherness of female selfhood...

The hardcore drug addicts that I treat, are, without exception, people who have had extraordinarily difficult lives. The commonality is childhood abuse. These people all enter life under extremely adverse circumstances. Not only did they...

The borderline Queen experiences what therapists call “oral greediness”. The desperate hunger of the borderline Queen is akin to the behavior of an infant who had gone too long between feelings. Starved, frustrated, and beyond...

If there is one thing developmental psychologists have learned over the years, it is that parents don’t have to be brilliant psychologists to succeed. They don’t have to be supremely gifted teachers. Most of the...

Shall we go?’ he murmured, perhaps regretting his decision to show me his army of plastic cartoon figurines.

No ideology or psychological theory can possibly do justice to the full range of human experience.

Suffering is just about the easiest of all human activities; being happy is just about the hardest. And happiness requires, not surrender to guilt, but emancipation from guilt.

Unable to penetrate to the secret place of his soul where his motives lay hidden, he believed that a supernatural voice had called him onward, and that a supernatural power had obstructed his retreat.

But it was not only a feeling of guilt which drove him into danger. He detested the pettiness that made life semilife and men semimen. He wished to put his life on one of a...

Free man needs loyalty to the self first of all, and this implies the right to be himself

striid andWthdraw into yourself. Our master-reason asks no more than to act justly, and thereby to achieve calm.

All you need is one safe anchor to keep you grounded when the rest of your life spins out of control

Leave him.” But she knows it won’t be that easy. He will promise to change. He’ll get friends and relatives to feel sorry for him and pressure her to give him another chance. He’ll get...

But, mad or sane, Matthews was a man of no ordinary persistence. He was not prepared to renounce the peace plan, any more than he would be prepared to renounce his madness a few years...

A beautiful day begins with a beautiful mindset. Every day you wake up, think about what a privilege it is to simply be alive and healthy. Stop focusing on the negatives and everything that could...

I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.

Thinking is computation, I claim, but that does not mean that the computer is a good metaphor for the mind. The mind is a set of modules, but the modules are not encapsulated boxes or...

Asshole Proximity Disorder

To be yourself is in many ways to be inconvenient to others. Only placaters and appeasers get along with other people all the time and that’s not really getting along with anyone. That’s just self...

If you discovered something that made you tighten inside, you had better try to learn more about it.

From what deep springs of character our personal philosophies issue, we cannot be sure. In philosophers themselves we seem always able to notice some deep internal correspondence between the man and his philosophy. Are our...

We often think we express negative emotions, not because we cannot help it, but because we should express them.

A psychiatrist is the God of our age. But they cost money.

It is human nature to strive.

No fact in human nature is more characteristic than its willingness to live on a chance. The existence of the chance makes the difference… between a life of which the keynote is resignation and a...

Religious man was born to be saved, psychological man is born to be pleased.

Wetiko doesn’t objectively exist, and yet, at the same time, it is not merely our projection or imagination. Instead of an either/or universe, where phenomena like wetiko are either real or unreal, there is an...

One Nice Guy asked me, “If a man is talking in the forest and no woman is there to hear him, is he still wrong?

do not exist,” or in any case do not exist in the same way as do the inhabitants of the real world. But things manifest in an entirely different way on the unconscious level, which...

Fui acusado de ser um utópico, de querer eliminar o desprazer do mundo e defender apenas o prazer. Contudo, tenho declarado claramente que a educação tradicional torna as pessoas incapazes para o prazer encouraçando-as contra...

In this quiet place on a quiet streetwhere no one ever finds usgently, lovingly, freedom gives back our pain.–from poem In a Quiet Place on a Quiet Street

. . . the newspapers of Utopia, he had long ago decided, would be terribly dull.

I see dull people as projects … to be reformed

Patience is supported & nurtured by a quality of forgiveness.

Nakajima’s past would always be there, so the foundation could crumble at any moment. That’s what happens, I realized, when people destroy other people.

Thinking is difficult, that’s why most people judge.

One can learn from what is not said.

The majority of my patients consisted not of believers but of those who had lost their faith.

Only when we learn to value the differences among us can we achieve the true spirit of humanity.

We forget very easily what gives us pain.

To a certain degree,We all seek, life’s purpose and meaning,love, peace and joy,and knowledge, wealth and power…

Envy is a sign of insecurity, yes; but so is longing to be envied.