Winning and losing is not an external game. It is an internal battle over telling yourself the truth vs. lies regarding why you haven’t stepped into the life you dreamed of.

I felt I was drawing close to that age, that place in life, where you realize one day what you’d told yourself was a Zen detachment turns out to be naked fear. You’d had one...

If you plan for failure, then you are expecting to fail. If you plan for success, you’ll be successful. Once you start making a ‘Plan B’, you distract from ‘Plan A’, and the moment you...

gratitudenoun ˈgra-tə-ˌtüd, -ˌtyüd 1. The word thrown in your face by people who covet what you want and believe that your lack of contentment is a sin. Often, these people believe success is what you...

I do” to someone else.

If you don’t know what you want, you’ll never find it.If you don’t know what you deserve, you’ll always settle for less.You will wander aimlessly, uncomfortably numb in your comfort zone, wondering how life has...

There are settling girls, and there are unsettling girls. The ones who seem to have it in them to be flyers are the ones who want to snuggle into settling. The ones who look as...

Don’t be so caught up in the noble cause of responsibility that you lose your passion for who you are living for.

Breakups have a way of shaking us awake and helping us see what we really want vs. what we are willing to settle for.

Don’t let the belief that nobody will love you, keep you in a relationship where you aren’t getting the love you need.

What’s agitating about solitude is the inner voice telling you that you should be mated to somebody, that solitude is a mistake. The inner voice doesn’t care about who you find. It just keeps pestering...

The biggest human temptation is to settle for too little.

The wonderful, beautiful thing that happens when you rid yourself of the things that don’t see your worth? You make space in your life for all the glorious things you deserve.

The changes we make in life often happen when we have a degree of certainty. However, the pain of our past failures and the fears of our peers often fuel our uncertainty. This inability to...

Those rabbits stopped fighting the system, because it was easier to take the loss of freedom, to forget what it was like before the fence kept them in, than to be out there in the...

Here’s a glorious thought: You don’t have to settle. Ever. In life, in love, in your career…ANYWHERE!

Blame doesn’t empower you. It keeps you stuck in a place you don’t want to be because you don’t want to make the temporary, but painful decision, to be responsible for the outcome of your...

This is what I know. Don’t settle for 40, 50, or even 80 percent. A relationship-it shouldn’t be too small or too tight or even a little scratchy. It shouldn’t take up space in your...

When you refuse to settle for less than the best…the best tends to track you down.

You may marry Miss Grey for her fifteen pounds but you will always be my Willoughby. My nightmare. My sorrow. My past. My mistake. My regret. My love.

Best way to live in California is to be from somewheres else.

If you want your life to be a five-star reality, you have to stop settling for a fast food mentality!

A cell is just a room if you don’t lock the door.

Love spills out of these people. That’s what I want. Settling for anything less is a lie.

Satan will tempt you with many things in life, but the most powerful is the temptation to be grateful for what you have, when it is not the best life God had to offer you.

Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake & help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.

And that fear I’d felt, the disembodying confusion, seemed to be a drug I was now addicted to, because moving through the ordinary world- watching CNN, reading the Times, walking to Sant Ambroeus to have...

Conformity begins the moment you ignore how you feel for acceptance.

Because I’m too fabulous to settle.

Settling for someone average, I want someone who makes me a better person and who makes me do the unthinkable, someone who I am painfully in love with to the point that there could never...

Settling is not a destination, rather a vacation rental staring at an endless sea that dares you to cross its waves.

Happily Single is permission to CHOOSE your life rather than having it handed to you, and it’s living life on your own terms instead of those that are expected of you.

To restrict oneself and somewhat settle under a particular sexual essence is to limit our expression and individual progress.

Once you start settling, and letting others control your life, it can quickly become a habit, so it’s best to avoid such things altogether.

Often people that settle in life are those that only do what they can with what they have and where they are. Never settle for someone that didn’t know your worth from the beginning, or...

Ten years from now, make sure you can say that you CHOSE your life, you didn’t SETTLE for it.