We should not give away a moment to anyone who does not deserve it.

I used to think that finding the right one was about the man having a list of certain qualities. If he has them, we’d be compatible and happy. Sort of a checkmark system that was...

I am beginning to think there are two kinds of people,” she said. I waited. “Those who forgive themselves too easily but will not forgive others.” “And?” I asked. “Those that forgive others too easily...

…forever is hard enough without it beginning now.

It’s good to let God pick a man for you. We don’t do so well when we pick them ourselves. They end up lipsticks in a drawer, all those wrong colors you thought looked so...

It was about the way a moment, a single moment, could change things and make you decide to try to be someone different.

You could try and understand people, you could read books and understand words and concepts and ideas, but you could never understand enough or have enough knowledge to keep away the surprises that both fate...

To an untrained eye, need and love were as easily mistaken for each other as the real master’s painting and a forgery.

Supposedly there’s an actual, researched link between extreme creativity and mental illness, and I believe it because I’ve seen it with my own eyes.

I thought about him everyday until then. I started having these conversations with him in my head that you have when you meet someone you sense is going to be important in your life.

The loneliness you feel with another person, the wrong person, is the loneliest of all.

Fate’s got a fucking sick sense of humor. Fate is a shape-shifter. It’s the kindest and most generous entity imaginable, laying out more goodness than a person deserves, and then it shrinks and curls and...

You have the ability to just go on and forget people and how much they are meant, but I don’t. You can people in their own little boxes and leave them there. So much for...

Sometimes love is a surprise, an instant of recognition, a sudden gift at a sudden moment that makes everything different from then on. Some people will say that’s not love, that you can’t really love...

Love doesn’t seem to follow a plan; it’s not a series of steps. It can hit with the force of nature – an earthquake, a tidal wave, a storm of wild, relentless energy that is...

Unconditional love is like a contry of two with no laws and no government. Which is all fine if everyone is peaceful and law abiding. In the wrong hands, though, you got looting and crime...

A person shows signs of clutching on too fast, of being needy, of not hearing the word “no,” of jealousy, of guarding you and your freedom. But the signs can be so small they skitter...

Running away can also be running to.

You can want one thing and have a secret wish for its opposite.

Sometimes good choices are really bad ones, wrapped up in so much fear you can’t even see straight.

The way two people can and everything place, find each other in a crowd, and change your life the lives of the people around them forever… It makes you believe in fate. In fate love...

I was like a chocolate in a box, looking well behaved and perfect in place, all the while harboring a secret center.

When what you want is a relationship, and not a person, get a dog.

Rejection, though–it could make the loss of someone you weren’t even that crazy about feel gut wrenching and world ending.

Because what is more like love than the ocean? You can play in it, drown in it. It can be clear and bright enough to hurt your eyes, or covered in fog; hidden behind a...

A person is never as quiet or unrestrained as they seem, or as bad or good, as vulnerable or as strong, as sweet or as feisty; we are thickly layered, page lying upon page, behind...

It’s some twisted, limited, grocery-store mentality, where people have to be dairy products or vegetables or frozen foods for us to be able to understand them and feel safe. Maybe we’ve just become such mega-consumers...

It can be exhausting eating a meal cooked by a man. With a woman, it’s, Ho hum, pass the beans. A guy, you have to act like he just built the Taj Mahal.

I’ve wished for things and never really had the chance…It’s time to stop dreaming and do something about it. You’ve got to know what you want, then…go.

Let me tell you, you either have chemistry or you don’t, and you better have it, or it’s like kissing some relative. But chemistry, listen to me, you got to be careful. Chemistry is like...

You can hold a secret, hold it so far in that it drives nearly every thought and every move you make- your very heartbeat, almost.

I shouldn’t have to be a liar to make someone love me. I shouldn’t be so afraid of losing someone that I’ll do anything to make them stay.

The most basic and somehow forgettable thing is this: Love is not pain. Love is goodness. And real love–it’s less shiny than solid and simple.

Flawed Human Parents + Shit Life Throws At You = Childhood That ‘Builds Character.

Maybe it was wrong, or maybe impossible, but I wanted the truth to be one thing. One solid thing.

In a world of insanity, nothing is sacred. It’s an insane world, nothing is sacred.

The hope was, people like me got to finally find our place in college or in the actual world. People who understood this told you that high school wasn’t the actual world, that it was...

If time heals all wounds, and a book can hold a person’s entire life, then you can speed up the process with a pulp time warp.

Knowledge is so comforting, but so is mystery.

You’ve got to say what you mean and mean what you say…Doubt in your voice is an open door people will shove right through.

It took me years to figure out that upset was upset, and tumultuousness was not the same thing as passion. Love isn’t drama.

And pity–people who inspire it in you are actually very powerful people. To get someone else to take care of you, to feel sorry for you–that takes a lot of strength, smarts, manipulation. Very powerful...

We look down our noses at people who’ve made mistakes in relationships. She’s so stupid! How could she do that! Our superiority makes us feel better. But I’d bet everything I have on the fact...