A typical submissive lives to serve. She likely grew up believing that service to the people you care for is how you express your love for them. It had little or nothing to do with...

I believe in you.” When a Dominant believes in his submissive, she eventually grows to believe in herself. That sort of empowerment is priceless beyond measure, and almost always bears sweet fruit.

Her intensity often surprises and mystifies the people within the Warrior Princess Submissive’s circle of associates. They will occasionally forget how deeply she feels and believes in her causes and, as a result, suddenly find...

There’s nothing sexier than confidence, and nothing dumber than over-confidence. Life is all about where you draw the line between the two.

She instinctively knows that each pretender she eliminates brings her one step closer to the One, and in fact, it is not unusual to hear her use this exact terminology: The One. You can almost...

World of Kinkcraft” gamer mentality, where people just want to download a cheat sheet or a step-by-step walk-through. Many newcomers yearn to “learn the rules” of the lifestyle as quickly as possible, so they can...

My new and improved Golden Rule: Dom unto others as you would have God Dom unto you.

Bottoming doesn’t make you a submissive any more than standing in my kitchen makes you a cook. By the way, while you’re there, please make me a sandwich.

A cage stokes our emotions and imaginations, regardless of whether you are inside looking out, or outside looking in.

There is a pernicious notion held by many that being a submissive means being a victim or a doormat. The so-called Fifty Shades phenomenon gives this repulsive lie some very long legs, spreading it far...

Make no mistake about it, a perfect storm is forming, and it’s coming our way. Its sudden onset and fierce intensity will surprise even its most vocal proponents and cheerleaders. Many people who are now...

The Warrior Princess Submissive is – at least in my humble opinion – quite possibly destined to be the hope and salvation of the D/s lifestyle from an ever-increasing wave of attacks by a small...

walking the walk.” She doesn’t have to wear her feminism on her sleeve; she exudes it from every pore and typically demonstrates it in practically everything she does. No, the issue – when it comes...

I love redheads. It’s not the hair color, it’s the crazy.

People are like M&Ms. They come in a variety of colors, they’re hard on the outside, and full of obscene yumminess on the inside.

It’s easy to fall in love online with someone you’d slide away from on a bus stop bench. A little too damn easy.

Some people believe that it isn’t so much power that is exchanged in TPE, as it is authority. The intrinsic difference between power and authority can best be explained thusly: If we were talking about...