Your message, your ministry, your influence is built from your flaws. People relate to HUMANITY…not perfection.

Better Half.”The bravest woman I know?She is the reason I do what I do.She is The Single Woman.She’s me…and she’s you.

Don’t ignore the love you DO have in your life by focusing on the love you DON’T.

You cannot ask someone to like you or love you more than you like or love yourself. YOU have to set the standard.

Happily Single” is recognizing that you don’t need or want to be rescued from your life by a handsome prince because your life is pretty awesome, as is.

Being brave enough to be alone frees you up to invite people into your life because you want them and not because you need them.

Find yourself first…like yourself first…love yourself FIRST…& friendship & love will naturally find YOU.

You’ve gotta love yourself enough to look INSIDE you & not BESIDE you for your joy, confidence, & self worth.

That’s the thing about fear. It can only hang around until faith enters the room, then it’s forced to flee.

Single is a choice, just like Married is.

You don’t need a significant other to lead a significant life.

Two things you will never have to chase: True friends & true love.

Single moms: You are a doctor, a teacher, a nurse, a maid, a cook, a referee, a heroine, a provider, a defender, a protector, a true Superwoman. Wear your cape proudly.

Red flags are moments of hesitation that determine our destination.

If a man WANTS to be with you, he will make his actions clear. There won’t be any questions, murkiness, cloudiness, or fear.

If you surrender your self-worth to someone who doesn’t see your true value, what happens when someone comes along who wants to give you what you’re worth instead of what you’ll settle for?The bottom line...

Happiness doesn’t have to be chased…it merely has to be chosen.

Even seasonal situations can bring with them lessons that last a lifetime. If the love doesn’t last, it prepares you for the one that will.

An amazing thing happens when you stop seeking approval and validation: You find it. People are naturally drawn like magnets to those who know who they are and cannot be shaken!

could have’s” – because if it should have, it would have!

You’re beautiful, just the way you are. Shine on. And dare anyone to turn off the lights.

True strength is knowing that you don’t have to be strong every single second of the day.

Think about it this way: While being married is about becoming the WIFE you are meant to be, being single allows you to focus on becoming the WOMAN you were born to be.

Single ladies, we are not Damsels in Distress…we are Divas that Impress!

One of the best times for figuring out who you are & what you really want out of life? Right after a break-up.

single” about a single mom.

There is nothing that can happen TO you that can’t also happen FOR you…if you’ll let it.

Be a bit of a challenge; not because you’re playing games but because you realize you’re worth the extra effort.

There is never a moment when God is not in control. Relax! He’s got you covered.

Our friends have a way of reminding us of how fabulous we are when the rest of the world has forgotten.

When you are your own best friend, you don’t endlessly seek out relationships, friendships, and validation from the wrong sources because you realize that the only approval and validation you need is your own.

Loneliness is designed to help you discover who you are…and to stop looking outside yourself for your worth.

In the midst of our struggle to find out who we are, there are infinite possibilities for beauty, and hope, and wonder, and love.

You can’t truly heal from a loss until you allow yourself to really FEEL the loss.

The One.” Sometimes a girl just wants to have fun.

safe” isn’t one of them.

No matter how much you stress or obsess about the past or future, you can’t change either one. In the present is where your power lies.

You WILL eventually become what you think. Whether you succeed or fail is determined in your mind long before we see it play out in real-time.

Breakups have a way of shaking us awake and helping us see what we really want vs. what we are willing to settle for.

Outer beauty pleases the EYE. Inner beauty captivates the HEART.

Look around you at the people you spend the most time with and realize that your life can’t rise any higher than your friendships.

Because I’m too fabulous to settle.

one-size-fits-all”!

Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.

Figure out what makes you laugh, and do more of it. Figure out what makes you cry, and do less of it.

I do” to someone else.

Love is a beautiful, wonderful, and even sacred thing, but until it arrives, shouldn’t we give ourselves permission to thrive?

If you learn to really sit with loneliness and embrace it for the gift that it is…an opportunity to get to know YOU, to learn how strong you really are, to depend on no one...

Never stop trying. Never stop believing. Never give up. Your day will come.

A girl who truly knows herself is a girl everybody else wants to know