Of course we need to accept ourselves as we are, but we can’t stop there. We also need to value ourselves enough make needed changes.

Your private self must become the same as your public self.

To be happy and beloved have a tender heart, blissful thoughts, and a non-judgmental mind.

When you are non-judgmental, you are happy. Happiness depends on you, on your thoughts, on your attitude, on your ideas and vision, and nothing else.