It takes a major unhappiness, a prolonged and bitter experience, to drive us away from loyalties once formed. And sometimes no amount of punishment can make us repudiate our loyalty.

As partisans of our own way of life, we cannot help thinking in a partisan manner.

Personality is less a finished product than a transitive process. While it has some stable features, it is at the same time continually undergoing change.

The surest way to lose truth is to pretend that one already wholly possesses it.

A prejudice, unlike a simple misconception, is actively resistant to all evidence that would unseat it.

Dogmatism makes for scientific anemia.

It is not that we have class prejudice, but only that we find comfort and ease in our own class. And normally there are plenty of people of our own class, or race, or religion...

Each person is an idiom unto himself, an apparent violation of the syntax of the species.

Mature striving is linked to long-range goals. Thus, the process of becoming is largely a matter of organizing transitory impulses into a pattern of striving and interest in which the element of self-awareness plays a...

What is familiar tends to become a value.

To a considerable degree, all minority groups suffer from the same state of marginality with its haunting consequences of insecurity, conflict, and irritation.

The primary problem in the psychology of becoming is to account for the transformation by which the unsocialized infant becomes an adult with structured loves, hates, loyalties, and interests, capable of taking his place in...

Self-love, it is obvious, remains always positive and active in our natures.

No corner of the world is free from group scorn.

Open-mindedness is considered to be a virtue. But, strictly speaking, it cannot occur. A new experience must be redacted into old categories. We cannot handle each event freshly in its own right. If we did...

We cannot know the young child’s personality by studying his systems of interest, for his attention is as yet too labile, his reactions impulsive, and interests unformed. From adolescence onward, however, the surest clue to...

The outlines of the needed psychology of becoming can be discovered by looking within ourselves; for it is knowledge of our own uniqueness that supplies the first, and probably the best, hints for acquiring orderly...

So many tangles in life are ultimately hopeless that we have no appropriate sword other than laughter.

Scarcely anyone ever wants to be anybody else. However handicapped or unhappy he feels himself, he would not change places with other more fortunate mortals.