Nothing is incidental.

I don’t want to live, I want to love first and live incidentally.

You can change your life or not change it. It really doesn’t matter in the end.Life as humans live it is too fleeting, too incidental, too minisculefor the universe to keep forever.So just do good...

God saved my life miraculously…when I was shot by armed robber. I am a survivor! I am thankful to God for the gift of life.

I think if a story has a message it should be incidental and accidental, otherwise it leans too close to indoctrination.