When we fall in love at a glance, the question we should ask ourselves (and this would apply to both men and women) is, What is it that we long for? Or perhaps, What are...

But sex as a physical act is merely athletics, a momentary relief. What it needs to be powerful is desire, and the strongest element of desire is longing. It’s in the work. Desider-, sidus: from...

Most people who fall obsessively in love claim that it happens precipitously, unexpectedly […]But I believe there’s almost always a prerequisite. Falling in love in this way will usually occur at a time of transition....