Couples need to let go of the notion that something’s wrong if you’re not enraptured with each other all the time. After the early enchantment stage, it takes proactive behavior to keep your love alive.

Stay focused on self-direction and personal growth and away from finger-pointing. The behavior of love is what counts, so be specific about your actions.

The idea that couples that play together stay together is very true. Like all good things, it takes planning and creativity.

You’re both human and prone to error. Instead of focusing on what you do wrong, focus on what’s right and let go of the little mistakes.