One does not change a feeling by focusing on that feelings. One changes a feeling by changing one’s behaviors and or one’s thoughts

•Parallel monologues are often what people offer each other when they are in the same place as another but not with another.•

When I have too much information or too many choices, I often get confused.•When one wants to encourage another to learn what ”I know that you don’t know,” encourage them to engage in deep thought...

Much of human communication is a monologue delivered to anyone who will listen. A real dialogue allows many to express and has the chance of leading to more discovery.•