If we all talked honestly about what’s really happening in our sex lives, we’d realise that we’re all normal because it’s going to be about diversity.

The characters in Sex and the City were all scrambling for a man-I don’t call that a good message for women. Couldn’t just one of them say Look, I prefer to masturbate than go out...

If we could grow up knowing that the genitals are beautiful parts of our bodies, we’d be proud, we wouldn’t have shame, we wouldn’t have sexual guilt.

The clitoris is ignored. Our mothers weren’t told and their mothers’ mothers weren’t told.

If you are using your childhood masturbation technique, you are not developing sexually. We, of course, develop and become more varied.

The clitoris is the female sex organ, and the fact that we aren’t told that when we were small children is devastating. We grow up with no information about the pleasure center of our body.

If you go out to dinner with someone, you find out what they prefer in food. We ought to be able to have a conversation to find out what people prefer when it comes to...

The media only wants to get the view of the flaming radicals because they make better copy than those of us who are more sensible. I’m a feminist and I think I’ve done a lot...

It was so astonishing for women to sit there looking at images of female genitals. When we took those photographs, I got body rushes.

The orgasm is simply when the body does take over.

I consider myself a lesbian, but I’m a bisexual lesbian.

It’s very hard for a man to ask questions about sex. The smart ones do.

The person whose face is between your legs is gonna get lockjaw.

I consider the 70s to be the youth of old age. So all you women out there who are afraid of getting older, just keep your orgasms in place, eat a lot of vegetables, take...

Masturbation is our first and natural form of sexual activity and if that’s inhibited or damaged, then we suffer for the rest of our lives.

We all have our individual romantic or idealistic ideas. To get information that masturbation is our basic form of sex is hard, because who wants to admit they’re masturbating?

I like to see oral sex and manual sex and intercourse as foreplay for my vibrator sex.

Men are hung up on breasts. They’re looking at the titty dinner. It’s pathetic.

We are constantly protecting the male ego, and it’s a disservice to men. If a man has any sensitivity or intelligence, he wants to get the straight scoop from his girlfriend.

I used to think masturbation was not really sex because it only involved me. That’s a very limited view of human sexuality, and it isn’t going to work for women.

My entire career has been confronted with censorship. You can’t talk about masturbation in America without confronting censorship.

When I do documentaries, my best information ends up on the cutting-room floor. People have trouble dealing with sexual honesty.

I went through the ’70s and ’80s saying, I’m a heterosexual bisexual lesbian, and whenever I said that, no one asked me another thing.

Never touch your clitoris dry, never. I can’t emphasize enough lubrication.

I’ve spent the past six years with a young man, which was a nice break, dipping back into heterosexuality again from all my time with women.

Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice! That’s the condition of the female. Women have been conditioned to sacrifice for centuries.