I love you” are not enough to make up for that. Don’t kid yourself that they are.

good reasons” for his lies. He tells us he only lied because…. We tell ourselves he only lied because…. We make excuses for him: The lying wasn’t significant/Everybody lies/He’s only human/I have no right to...

When your lover is a liar, you and he have a lot in common, you’re both lying to you!