True happiness is a state of being,not one of doing or having.

Never allow yourself to become a choice in any relationship. The moment you do is when you have reduced your loved one’s affections to a daily biological question: Should I take a dump here or...

Most people are doing their best,most of the time.

Don’t depend on others tofuel your self-belief.Develop your self-belief so thatit becomes self-sustaining.

Being a control freakis a sign of a vulnerableself-esteem. The betteryou feel about yourselfthe less you need to controleverything around you.

You need someone to probe you in that direction. It won’t just happen automatically.” I knew what he was saying. We all need teachers in our lives.

The only person who cantake responsibility for yourhappiness is you.

Every time you say ‘but’, you aregiving yourself a get-out clause.

It’s okay to aspire to a better life, but don’t let it stop you from enjoying the life you already have.

Be honest with yourself.You can’t be the bestyou can be unless you knowwho you really are.

Let go of the idea of winningor losing. In the game of life,the most important thingis just showing upand doing your best.

You only have one life.Make sure that yours isone you are happyto be living.

Truth is not negative. Truth helps us see things from a fresh perspective. Truth educates, creates awareness, and is the first step to initiating any real and lasting change.

If you want to bethe best you can be,don’t judge anyone.Not even yourself.

When you believe in yourselfit is easier not to takecriticism, knock-backs anddisappointments personally

The only thing you have totalcontrol over is who you choose to be.Be the best you can be.

Power comes to those who take it.

If someone tries to undermine your commitment, re-evaluate your commitment to them.

There is nothing wrong withdeciding that you don’t wantsomething, but if you do want it,go out and get it!

Your expectations determineyour experience.Expect the best from lifeand you will usually get it.

When everyone believes they are the life coaches, who are the players?

Unless you have the courage to say ‘no’ to the things you don’t want, it’s hard to say ‘yes’ to the things that you do want.

Look for the joy in each andevery day. Just because it isn’timmediately obvious, that doesn’tmean it’s not there.

Focus on what matters.Honour your valuesand make decisionsthat are aligned with them.

Remember to afford yourselfthe same generosityyou give to others.

When someone else doesn’t believein you or your dreams, rememberit’s about them, not you.

Accept the past,dream of the future,but live in the moment.

Don’t be limited by your limitations.