Perfectionism is a lost cause.Focus your energy on beingthe best you can be.

Before passing judgementon someone’s choices,stop and look at the questionsthey were trying to answer.

The happiest, most successfulpeople believe in themselvesunconditionally. They knowthey can do, be and have allthat they want in life.

You can’t make someonedo something just becauseyou want them to.What you do have, however,is the opportunity toinfluence their choices.

When you decide to be the bestyou can be, don’t be surprisedif the circle of people youwant to spend your time withbecomes smaller.

It is only when your actionsand words are aligned that youcan achieve your true potential.

Nobody’s life is perfect.Rather than wishingfor things you don’t have,make the most of thethings you do have.

It’s easy to be brave wheneverything is going your way.When the going gets tough,it takes courage to followthe path you believe in.

Focusing on scarcitywill only create moreof the same.

True happiness is a state of being,not one of doing or having.

Most people are doing their best,most of the time.

Don’t depend on others tofuel your self-belief.Develop your self-belief so thatit becomes self-sustaining.

Being a control freakis a sign of a vulnerableself-esteem. The betteryou feel about yourselfthe less you need to controleverything around you.

The only person who cantake responsibility for yourhappiness is you.

Every time you say ‘but’, you aregiving yourself a get-out clause.

It’s okay to aspire to a better life, but don’t let it stop you from enjoying the life you already have.

Be honest with yourself.You can’t be the bestyou can be unless you knowwho you really are.

Let go of the idea of winningor losing. In the game of life,the most important thingis just showing upand doing your best.

You only have one life.Make sure that yours isone you are happyto be living.

If you want to bethe best you can be,don’t judge anyone.Not even yourself.

When you believe in yourselfit is easier not to takecriticism, knock-backs anddisappointments personally

The only thing you have totalcontrol over is who you choose to be.Be the best you can be.

If someone tries to undermine your commitment, re-evaluate your commitment to them.

There is nothing wrong withdeciding that you don’t wantsomething, but if you do want it,go out and get it!

Your expectations determineyour experience.Expect the best from lifeand you will usually get it.

Unless you have the courage to say ‘no’ to the things you don’t want, it’s hard to say ‘yes’ to the things that you do want.

Look for the joy in each andevery day. Just because it isn’timmediately obvious, that doesn’tmean it’s not there.

Focus on what matters.Honour your valuesand make decisionsthat are aligned with them.

Remember to afford yourselfthe same generosityyou give to others.

When someone else doesn’t believein you or your dreams, rememberit’s about them, not you.

Accept the past,dream of the future,but live in the moment.

Very few changes in life areachieved without effort and acommitment to making that effort.

Just because there is an obstaclein your path, that doesn’t meanyou have to get off the road.

Worrying doesn’t change anything.Focus your energy on the outcomeyou do want and then do whatyou can to make it happen.

Be courageous in yourdecision-making.Stand by your choicesand never look back.

There is nothing wrongwith enjoying life’s luxuriesas long as your happinessisn’t contingent on them.

Choose to be happy.It’s the only sensible option!

When you make a choice,acknowledge all the consequences.That way you won’t be leftfeeling compromised.

Be generous with yourtime and energy. The harderit is to give, the morethe other person deserves it.

If you believe in yourself,anything and everything is possible.

Learning from the past can helpyou move forward. Lingering inthe past will only hold you back.

Identify your driving motivationand you will have all theencouragement you need.

Worrying about money isone of the biggest causes ofunhappiness, but no amountof money can make you happyunless you change theway you feel about it.

Most of the things that go wrongin life don’t have a lasting impact.Remind yourself that if it won’tmatter in ten years’ time,it doesn’t matter today.

Don’t rely on the opinions of others.Only you will know what isright for you.

There is nothing wrong withwanting more. There is no reasonwhy you shouldn’t get everythingyou want from life.

So many of life’s eventualitiesare beyond your control.Work out what things you caninfluence and come to a peacefulacceptance of the rest.

There is no such thingas ‘no choice’. There arealways other options.Explore yours.